Should I write the guy first?
Probably, almost every girl, having fallen in love,often looks at his phone, waiting for a call or message, checks e-mail, goes into social networks, waiting for him, if he does not call, then at least he will write. But here goes day after day, and from him, as they say, no news. And what can we do if we are unhappy, if for us one hour in anticipation lasts like an eternity? Let's decide together whether to write the guy first.
The degree of your feelings
Of course, having lost a head from love, each of uswill say that according to the scale of feelings of a hundred percent, our love is at least 99. But wait with conclusions, maybe this love will not last very long, and in a month you will already think about it, having met a new guy. Try to soberly assess how much you need it.
If you feel that you live peacefully without it,then do not start writing to him first. But when your normal existence is impossible without him and you are sure that only with him you will be happy, then think it over carefully and make a plan for yourself that will help you to catch it unnoticed in your networks so that he likes it, and he decided that he himself won you.
The degree of your acquaintance
Is it possible to write a guy first if you are goodare familiar? Why not? Just do not bother him with regular SMS, better think of a good reason. For example, ask him about something "important", and then quietly put the conversation in another direction. Be more cunning, do so that he does not notice that you are pursuing personal goals.
There are situations when the girls suddenlyfall in love with their friend. Then you have every right to write to him and even call, if you have done this before. Just try to keep yourself in hand so that he does not inadvertently guess the changes in your attitude towards him. To the unfamiliar guy write the first, it already means - to pull the initiative into their own hands.
Today, no one is surprised that somethe girls take it upon themselves and get themselves young people. Just think, do you want to fill up their ranks? There is nothing to worry about, but there is not much good either. I do not want to talk about the fact that men are conquerors, that they themselves like to take care of girls, and that's how everyone knows. And the choice is yours.
Often when quarreling, the guys just disappear. She already forgave him for a long time, but he does not hurry to apologize. Think well, maybe, in fact, you are to blame, but not him? Then to write to him is not humiliation, but confession of guilt. If you are sure that he did wrong, is it worth writing the guy first when he is not even able to understand his mistakes? In conclusion, I want to remind you, the girls, that "you will not force love," there are many guys around, and pride and dignity are in our individual copies.